This week's post for
Running and Reading Long, is about overcoming big challenges, life changing challenges. I'm not sure what to write about. I've had a couple major challenges in my life, or at least ones I felt were challenges, but I'm not 100% sure that I actually want to share either of them.
Big, deep, breath - here we go:
One of my biggest challenges came in the middle of high school. I was overweight (by a lot), unhappy, and the people I thought were my friends really weren't. I was so unhappy that I seriously considered what life would be like for my family if I just wasn't around anymore. Luckily, I think a lot before I do anything and like to gather lots of information too. And as a typical teenager I watched a lot of television.
One day I was unhappy, and bumming around on the couch watching talk shows. I can't remember which talk show it was, but they were talking about "Choice Theory". The basic premise of which is that everything is a choice, even if the circumstances are out of your control you can still choose how you react to them and deal with them (or not!).
From that moment on "Choice Theory" has played a huge role in my life. I started being conscious of the choices I was making on a daily basis, big and small. I started to try and make choices that I thought would make me happy. Some were small, like choosing what to listen to or wear, to big things like telling my "friends" that if they didn't want me around I wasn't going to bother with them anymore.
Since that day, I've looked at everything as a choice, and I strongly believe that my choices should be things that make me happy, or at least make me less unhappy. This has led to some incredible experiences like travelling to Manila, Philippines for work three times, weight training with an amazing trainer and loosing almost 100 lbs, going to lovely warm weather destinations with girl friends and having a blast. Dating is a bit tougher, as I can choose which guys I want to date, but I don't have as much control there :) But I do my best to control my reactions to what they decide to do/not do, and so far I've been relatively happy with those choices.
I can't think of any choice I've made since that fateful day that I've regretted. It's amazing to live a life knowing that I'm capable of making choices that I won't regret, and that make my life that much better. I still have those sad moments, and do give in to not great choices at those times (usually sugar/chocolate related), but they are few and far between.
We finished reading Matt Long's
Long Run this week, and I would definitely recommend this book to everyone! My favourite part matches my belief in choice theory, and I found it so inspiring. The day he finally decided to stop moping around, and took control of how he was reacting to his injuries and recovery. I felt so great for him when I read that section of the book. He proved that how I live my life can be applied to even the most devastating/tough circumstances.
As for my running - the heat has finally broken, and I'm back on track to be able to run the 5K in under 30 minutes the first weekend in August. Although I've come to the realization of the past three weeks that hot weather plus dating does not equal great nights of sleep. And lack of sleep means I'm not willing to get up for the early morning workouts. So this week my schedule has changes to after work workouts followed by a late and very light dinner.
Hope everyone else enjoyed Matt's book and the running is going really well!